Marriage, children, and divorce reshape who depends on you — and who should receive payouts.
Marriage and new partnerships
Update beneficiaries, trust schedules, and wills together. A policy naming a previous partner pays them unless changed — awkward at best, devastating at worst. Employer group life may default to spouses; confirm nomination forms.

Children arriving or growing up
Increase cover when dependents arrive; consider reducing term cover when they become financially independent. Guardian clauses in wills should align with trust beneficiaries on life policies.
Separation and divorce
Courts may require life cover as part of financial orders — maintain cover until obligations end. Joint policies may need splitting or replacing with two singles. Do not cancel cover before alternatives are in force.
Life events are the real renewal dates. Calendar reviews beat waiting for annual statements.
Post-event checklist
- Update policy beneficiaries and trust deeds.
- Adjust cover amounts for new debts or reduced needs.
- Sync will, power of attorney, and pension nominations.
- Tell employers to update group life nominations.
- Store new documents with executors informed.
Citizens Advice offers guidance on insurance after relationship breakdown.